Words are most powerful tools or weapons to make or break a relationship, increase or decrease ones stature, praise or criticize and can kill or give life to a person. No wonder it is true that a person can be killed just by words at the same time these words do have the power to give life. Words when properly used can create a positive attitude in others who are listening.

The power of Words:

Once there was a 5 years old boy who is studying kindergarten. He asked his mother why her stomach is growing so big day by day. She says that he is going to have a new sister within a couple of months. This boy after coming from the school used to go straight to his mother and started singing a song to his sister who is in his mother’s womb which goes like this.

You are my sunshine
My only sunshine
You make me happy
When skies are grey
You’ll never know dear
How much I love you
Please don’t take my sunshine away.

One day his mother indeed gave birth to a baby girl, but unfortunately  the baby had no life in her. Doctors after long examination declared the baby to be dead. The boy and his father went to see the child who is dead. This boy doesn’t know that the baby is dead but as soon as he see’s his sister he again starts to sing the song “You are my sunshine My only sunshine…” and you know what? to everyone’s surprise the baby did respond to that song and she started to move. She lived and what made her to be alive again? I believe words do have power; this boy was literally imparting life into this baby from months before she actually came into the world.

Same time words do kill a person I don’t want to share any story though I know many incidents. Some people can give such a profound speech that a person who listens to them will not even care to give up their life. Many people simply end up their life by committing suicide for very silly reasons that somebody said something to them.

Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another.

These days not only speeches but writings also do influence a person. It is you who can write a post with positive attitude in it. There are no plugins to do this for you or to check the level of positive attitude contained in your post like an SEO plugin or so.

There are something’s which plugins can’t but only a human can. To optimize your post to a search engine robot you use a plugin but to optimize it to a human it requires only a human. – Vijesh

Story of how Positive attitude matters:

Long ago a king calls for a fortune-teller to see what he could predict about his future. The fortune-teller told that all his family members are going to die very soon. The king got very angry at his prediction and he sentenced the fortune-teller to death. Now king asks for some other fortune-teller to predict his future. The second one knew what happened to the previous fortune-teller. So this time he says Hail Oh king! Oh majesty! Your future says that you would outlive everyone in your family. King becomes very happy and orders his minister to give him many costly presents. The message given by both the fortune tellers is the same but what mattered in both instances? It is the way of presentation that mattered.

Now as a person who writes a blog should write an article in such a way that it creates a positive attitude in the one who is reading. Tweak your article like the second fortune-teller. This doesn’t come in a day but it needs a lot of practice. You could impart many positive things in your readers and you know what you too can influence people around you. So as a saying goes

If you want to change the world, change yourself. If you want to make the world a better place, make yourself better.

Do you have a positive attitude in you?

So to write positively you should have a positive attitude in you. Let me help you in showing how your attitude is? See the image below and read it loud.

What did you read it? Did you read it as No Where or Now Here, if you have read it as No Where, then you are probably struggling with negative attitude. If you read it as Now Here then keep going you are definitely here. So I think you have decided whether you are no where or a now here blogger. Now don’t ask me what if I have read it as both may be you have both good and bad then.

I have seen a video which is posted long back in YouTube which gives a simple message that you can change your world by changing your words.

Change Your Words, Change Your World

I think by now you might have understood the essence of this post. Positive attitude helps a blogger to change his fellow bloggers and his readers.

A successful and inspirational blogger is not the one who earns 6 figure income, gains millions of Facebook, twitter, and loyal followers but who actually produces successful and inspirational bloggers.

I want to share a small joke on how one can use their words to hurt others. This joke is just for fun.

The Golfer asks the Gypsy, “Are there golf courses in Heaven?”

She replies, “I have good news, and I have bad news…”

Golfer, “What’s the good news?”

Gypsy: “The good news is that Heaven’s golf courses are beautiful beyond anything you could imagine!”

Golfer, “How could there be any bad news with that?”

Gypsy, “You have a game booked to start at 8:30 tomorrow morning.”

Conclusion:

The word’s we speak or write can inspire or discourage a person, so we should be careful while writing a post or a comment. Writing a positive comment helps a person to write even better. We should not be selfish over others success or moved by our own success. We need to help people to walk the same path of success as we did in order to produce inspiring and most beautiful blogging community. This post is directly inspired by my mistakes and indirectly by my friend Angela McCall a professional graphic designer. Above all its God who helped me in putting the words in the article. Are you interested in developing a positive attitude and imparting it to others?